Blog
Usha Patel, Neurocognitive Therapist and Director of Raviv Practice London shares her first-hand experience of working with children /adults and the latest research and upcoming events in her series of blog posts.
Why does my child apply too much pressure when writing?
When learning to write, children must develop many skills, including strong core and neck muscles to maintain good posture. Gross motor skills (arm muscles) need to develop before handwriting; fine motor skills can progress naturally.
My child wants to do their homework lying on the floor
Parents often wonder why their child prefers the floor to the desk or the kitchen table for homework. By "on the floor", I mean lying on their tummy, propped up on their elbows. Children can stay in this position for hours, happily working away.
Why some children struggle to start tasks: understanding executive function difficulties
One of the most common concerns parents raise in my therapy practice is this: “My child knows what to do, but they just cannot start.”
This difficulty is often misunderstood as lack of motivation, avoidance, or defiance. The reality for many neurodivergent children is that this is not a matter of attitude; the problem lies much deeper. It is rooted in executive function and, more specifically, the working memory.
Why is my child struggling to read? Signs of a hidden vision problem
Has your child's school told you they're slow at reading, struggle with spelling, or can't copy from a book? Do they mix up their maths symbols or get tired quickly in class? If so, this blog will be of interest. These struggles often have overlooked causes and understanding them can make a real difference.
Comic books - a gateway to reading for Autistic children
Graphic novels are far easier to absorb than the dense walls of text found in most chapter books. Many autistic children struggle with pacing and timing, and large, unbroken blocks of text are particularly difficult for them to manage.
Why your child rushes through homework (and how to fix this).
When children have to do tasks they don't particularly enjoy, it is natural to want to get them over and done with. But if a child rushes through most things, even the activities they enjoy, we need to look much more closely.
My child won’t flush the toilet or wash their hands. It’s NOT defiance; here’s what’s really going on.
You’ve told her a hundred times. You’ve put a chart on the wall, asked nicely, asked firmly, and somewhere along the way started to wonder whether you’re simply invisible.
Understanding your child’s circadian rhythms
Do you have difficulties getting your child up in the mornings? Knowing that your child may not be getting sufficient sleep is worrying.
Sleep is a vital process for children, especially regarding memory consolidation.
Why does my child hesitate when reading long words?
Many parents of children in primary school tell me, “My child can read, but when they see a long word, they freeze.”
It is not surprising to hear over time, these children may begin to avoid reading aloud, skip unfamiliar words
Understanding the networks that shape your mornings
Picture this: you set your alarm for 7:30am each morning, a reasonable and perfectly respectable time to wake up, but every time it goes off you get up, you turn it off and go back to bed, or even worse, you scroll on your phone.
Understanding Executive Functioning Skills and how Interactive Metronome can help
“He comes home from school and wants to shut himself away in his room. He won’t talk, refuses to do his homework, and won’t even eat properly. The school says he is fine, top of his class, so I don’t understand what is happening.”
The hidden reflex that may be making dyslexia worse.
While dyslexia is often thought of as a language-based problem in which speed, auditory processing, and working memory affect academic performance, there are other factors to consider that many parents don't think about.
Why some children can't sit still: a nervous system perspective
This behaviour is often misunderstood as inattentiveness, hyperactivity, or lack of discipline.
In my therapy work, however, I frequently see something very different.
My child with Autism hates hand dryers.
Many parents with children with Autism worry about taking their child to new places for fear of using the public toilets and the anxiety created by automatic hand dryers.
Why all children with ASD need reflex integration therapy
Discover how retained primitive reflexes impact children with autism and why reflex integration is essential for emotional regulation and learning.
What is the normal speed children should read at?
Parents often ask me whether their child is reading at the “right” speed. Some children read accurately but very slowly, others rush through text with little understanding, and many become anxious or fatigued when asked to read aloud.
How nasal breathing helps children sleep better and improve brain function
Good Sleep is essential for children. During a good restorative sleep, children grow, consolidate memories, and recharge, ready for the next day. Yet, many children struggle to get quality sleep each night.
A factor that often influences sleep quality is how your child breathes while sleeping.
When bright children have convergence insufficiency
A parent came to me about their child's maths, and specifically the daily Kumon papers. The parent reported that the work starts accurately but declines towards the end.
It didn't make sense to the parent nor to me. Kumon relies on repetition to build stamina.
Why Cogmed Working Memory Training supports children with dyslexia
When most people hear the word dyslexia, they think of difficulties with reading and spelling. But there’s often something else at play: working memory.
Why does my child make spelling mistakes when copying from a textbook?
Is your child bright and creative but still struggles to copy text or spell correctly? It may not be laziness, eye tracking challenges and unintegrated reflexes could be to blame. Learn how to spot the signs and what developmental therapies can do to help.